Myths, Viral Rumors and Old Wives’ Tales

The Monday after Halloween seems like as good a moment as any to swat away some of the myths, rumors and mischief that swirl around the college admission process as the deadlines draw near (or “nigh,” if this were a Shakespearean blog).  These misimpressions fester in real places like high school cafeterias and cyber spots like “College Confidential” and Facebook, among others, so let me use my own corner of the internet to clear the air.  (Think of this blog as air freshener after your grandmother boils some cabbage.)

So, where do I start?  There are so many possibilities I feel dizzy (and it’s not because I’ve eaten too many Reese’s Peanut Butter cups in the last 48 hours, although I suppose that is a possibility).  In random order, I’ll offer a few naughties and just let it rip:


Myth #1: “Optional” really means “Required.”

Truth: “Optional” sections of an application (like our “infamous Supplement,” as one girl referred to it last month) are not covert opportunities to trip you up.  I kid you not.  If an essay or standardized test or interview is labeled “optional,” there is truth to that blessed adjective.  The college has given you a choice.  Use it or dispose of it as you see fit.  Don’t over-analyze it.  It’s not a trick question, and you won’t be “penalized” if you skip it.  That’s why it’s “optional.”  (It really is a lovely word.)


Myth #2: “Too many people are applying from my high school and we will knock each other out because the college has a quota from my school.”

Truth: While there are usually limits to the number of acceptances a college can extend, especially in the most selective pools, we do not pre-determine a quota for each high school and stick to it.  If the pool from a school is deep and compelling then multiple candidates will be invited into the class.  If it’s not, then the number of acceptances will be low.  These are case by case decisions, not a herd approach.  Similarly, there are no quotas for international students, or people of color, or kids from New Jersey.


Myth #3: “Colleges check Facebook pages.”

Truth: No, we don’t.  Seriously, we don’t look and we don’t want to look.  If this type of inspection would be useful to our decision-making, we would ask you to send us a link to your Facebook page so we could evaluate it; maybe it would be “optional.” But there are enough things for us to study and, frankly, there are some things we should not see.  Facebook is one of them.  (Having said that let me add that Facebook is a public space and, well, sometimes a reflective pause before you post is prudent.)


Myth #4: “The college said it will use my highest test scores but they asked for all my scores so those will secretly be used against me.”

Truth:  Everybody wins when we use your highest scores.  Our computer picks the best individual score on the critical reading, math and writing sections of the SAT, or the respective subjects on the ACT, and those become the scores we see when we read your file.  End of story.


Myth #5: “A coach called me so that means I am a recruited athlete.”

Truth: The coach called you. That means you are someone he or she wants to get to know and you might become a “recruited athlete.”  Proceed carefully and don’t get your hopes up too quickly. A phone call, e-mail or letter of interest from a coach does not mean you are “being recruited.”


Myth #6: “I have to fill in all the lines on the extracurricular section of the Common Application.”

Truth:  Fill in as many lines as necessary to illustrate your involvement outside the classroom.  “More” is not “better” if your participation is light. If you attended a single meeting of the Quidditch Club in 10th grade, you don’t really need to tell us about it (unless you figured out a way to fly on a broom). Highlight the good stuff; show us where your passion lies.  But don’t feel the need to add random things to the list or embellish a minor club just to fill the space.


Myth #7: “I need financial aid so I can’t (or shouldn’t) apply ED.”

Truth: If a financial aid applicant applies early, he/she does surrender the chance to compare packages in the spring, and that is an important element to consider.  However, at least at Tufts, applying ED does not compromise your eligibility for need-based aid or the amount of the award we will offer you.  In other words, the financial aid award from Tufts will be the same no matter when you apply.  In the (highly) unlikely event that our award does not meet your definition of “need,” you can ask for a reconsideration of the award and we will release you from the binding enrollment agreement if we can not agree on a package.

Since 7 is considered a lucky number, I’ll stop here.


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  1. Crystal Mary

    After reading most of your blogs, I wonder if wit is a class offered at Tufts? The underlying thoughts enclosed in parenthesis are a mastered skill. If I get accepted into Tufts I would hope to yield puns, sarcasm, and literary allusions just as well.

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